Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Secret Revealed: Time to Introduce My Man

I actually find it amusing reading some of the comments from the previous post, and the emails and tweets that have been sent to me! Nonetheless, I had a good laugh and I hope you guys realise by now that the boyfriend quest was actually really a joke. That said, I loved the entries that I have received - thanks for the applications. :) It's still open if you want to apply.

The next two topics I am asked to write about are on my living hero and favourite musics, however, I am going to leave those for my next few posts because I think its about time I let you guys know this.

Yes, there is a special someone in my life, and yes, some of you guys actually know him.



It happened quite by accident. He is a blogger and when he first started, we exchanged quite a few emails and comments and that quickly became msn conversations and long Skype calls. It's funny how we instantly clicked and I think we both know that we share a lot of common values, sense of humour, and interests.

We spent at least 2 hours on Skype each day and we would text each other throughout the entire day. There is also the odd phone calls and the few letters / cards we sent to each other. He was there when I wake up in the morning and turn my laptop on and he was there before I go to bed.

After a lot of conversations and spending so much time with each other albeit virtually, we thought we were actually ready to take the next few steps. It took a while as we worked out how this is going to work with us both in two seperate countries and two different continents. We're both still at uni and are utter poor students. I think we both knew that and have kept that in our way for a while but in the end, we finally decided to give it a shot. :)

Well, one night while I was lying in bed trying to sleep and he was on Skype just waiting for me to fall asleep, entertaining me with his horrible singing and making me laugh more than helping me sleep, he told me what he was actually thinking and what our relationship meant to him and that after a lot of consideration, he wants to try to make this work for us. We had a good long discussion and finally decided that we are going to commit ourselves to this long-distance relationship.

I know its going to be difficult for us, but we have spent the past 3 months talking to each other and spending more time with each other than anyone else in our real-life. We have been together now for just over 5 weeks and it hasn't been easy but its probably one of the most beautiful experiences I have had. He understands me, he let me have my way sometimes. He knows how to tell me that I am wrong without getting me angry (I am quite a stubborn person). He knows how to hold a conversation, makes me laugh, makes me feel special and loved. He surprises me every few days with something small but thoughtful and sweet, and he makes me world so much brighter after a long, dull or dark day. He never whines nor does he ever give up. If he doesn't get something right, he will try it again and whatever he does, he makes me happy while he's doing it.

There are times when we have our misunderstandings and disagreements but we have always managed to come out of the arguments with a mutual agreement even if that is to disagree with each other.

At this point in my life, he makes my life whole and he's my inspiration in my everyday life, giving me the motivation and the ideas to help me do what I do. I can't really think of a reason not to commit myself to this relationship and work really hard to make this happen between us both.

It's taken us a long time to come out with a plan to tell you guys because you all are a part of this blogging community and there is every reason for you guys to know this. The plan was to have no plans, and just tell you all as it is whenever we're both ready and think that we're stable. :) And I think the time has come! :)

Of course, me being the dominant one in this relationship, I am to tell you guys about this first before he does - he's just slightly shy, submissive and I wear the pants in this relationship. :P He might disagree.

I think some of you guys might actually be able to tell who this person is. He's the only person who understood my joke in the previous post, and he is none other than my pilot - Taylor or more affectionately called a wombat. Hahaha!

The exciting news is, he's flying over to see me in a month time! :) "YAY" I hear you scream? You bet.

Enough one-sided story from me, go and harrass him to tell his side of the story. Remember, I wear the pants in this relationship, and quite clearly, he's probably going to lie about some details - like how I begged him to be in a relationship with me.

Friday, June 25, 2010

Are You My Ideal Guy?

What is it with people assuming that I am good-looking and cute without even knowing how I look like?

As health as it is for my ego, I think its a bit of a big assumption. :) Looks like no one actually saw my picture before it was taken down in the previous post.

Also, I want to add that I have met Tommy before, and Drew has also seen a pic of me. I didn't know these two still read my blog. :P Sorry!

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The next in the series of topics my readers (that is YOU if that is not obvious) has asked me to blog about is my ideal guy - "even if its just for a shag".

This is difficult because I can't even tell you my ideal gender, what more to say guy or girl.

Here is my attempt, but keep in mind, this isn't set in stone and this is in an imaginary world, assuming all things are perfect. Also, I am a highly indecisive person so what 'works' for me now probably will not work for me in 30 mins time, so this is most accurate at the time of writing - which is 4.48pm on a beautiful Friday afternoon.

Before you go on, you also need to keep in mind that this is not talking about you, so if you find it offensive, understand that this is about my preference - I am not having any views about anyone if they are not what I described.


I want my men to be perfectly cook - never over and never under. Confident, elegant and is a people person. My man has to be able to hold intelligent conversations with me and my friends, and be able to put up with my stubbornness. He has to have enough confidence and intelligence to tell me I am wrong but softness to have certain things my way. And being gentle in handling the whole situation.

I date man for a reason - because I want my man to be man. I know this can be fairly controversial and a bit of a sensitive issue to some, but this is just what turns me on. I don't mean a masculine, macho, alpha-male who kicks balls and work the tools (get the dirty thought out of your gutter mind), but someone who is not overly feminine, high-maintenance, loves shopping and carries a handbag. Having said that, my man has to have decent fashion sense though - not into fashion but at least he wouldn't dress up like a fucking bogan. I love bogans and their care-less attitude, but I can't put up living with one 24/7 or have someone swearing their guts out when having sex.

My man also cannot be overly desperate and immature because that definitely turns me off. Even if you're friggin' Matt Damon or Brad Pitt, if you're desperate,  my cock goes beyond placid for you.

My man has to be genuine, honest and man enough to admit faults. Tell things as it is, caring enough to think about my opinions and feelings if we have contradicting views and able to agree to disagree in a mature way.

Oh, and he has to spoil me - not like a fucking Princess but at least allow me to know that I am unique and special to him.

Now, if you're the one, fill in the Application Form and the selected candidates will be notified on 25th of July 2010.

Application Form removed.


If you think you're not the one, then can you please promote it on your blog, send it to a few friends and get the right players to apply?

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If you have any topics you want me to blog about, this is your chance to get me to spill the beans - unless its overly sensitive. Fill in the form in the sidebar and I'll write the post as soon as I can.

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

This is How I Look Like

I apologise for the disappearance. Truth is, I've been herding my sex slaves.

OK, that is a lie. Where would I find these sex slaves huh.

So the next in the series of questions is about my cute face. *Looks at Village Boy*

Bastard.

So here is a picture of how I look like and it will only be here for 15 mins before its gone!


[photo taken down]

Well, for those who missed it, too bad! Here's a photo of my body (sort of) instead.


Well, truth is, I'm just your ordinary, typical Asian with short black hair and brown eyes. I don't have any special feature and certainly I don't think I look anything amazing. Sure, some people do find me attractive and I do accept that I have quite a good sense of style, but honestly, I don't have the best features or anything. Some of you know how I look like, and Brett certainly know how I look like since he's met me in flesh - so go harrass him. Also Nathan who reads this blog has spent 5 days with me, kissed my face and seen more flesh of mine than most people. However, he's gone to north Europe so I doubt he's got connection good enough to read anymore posts - we can bitch about him! :D

Village Boy, Nic, Aek, torchy and BK have also seen a photo of me, so they might actually beg to differ. They can probably give you a better opinion on how I look like, but they are probably going to be appropriate and biased.

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I finally finished my prac which means no more early mornings for the next 2 months! Hurrah!

Saying goodbye wasn't easy though. On Friday, right from the moment I stepped into school, students were swarming me and asking me endless questions. Then when I walked into the classroom, two students came up to me and gave me chocolates. We had the whole pod assembly, which is 3 classrooms so about 80 of my favourite kids. I gave my farewell speech. They belong to my pod, so I know all of them rather well and I am rather close to most of them.

As the day went on, more chocolates and gifts came in! And some students bought me cards, and some made me cards. Overall, it was really flattering. I taught two sessions out of three on that day. In the final session, I said my final farewell and almost had tears! It was unbelievable, and then the kids had their final words with me and some had tears. It was quite moving. One kid ran up and hugged me - which is not allowed technically but he's the Deputy Principal's godson and his dad is the Principal at another school so he would know better. He's also a mischievous kid as well.

Aaaah. It's all over, but I did promise the kid I'll come back to visit them and that I'll do. :)

Monday, June 14, 2010

The American Boy I Was Supposed to Meet

The past week has been rather interesting and tiring I have to say. I really cannot wait to get this prac (as a teacher) over and done with. I do realised that I am quite unemployable if the organisation / business that I work for is highly structured, top-down, tribal and controlled. Google should hire me.

I caught up with quite a few friends this week, which is a huge achievement I have to say since I haven't caught up with quite that many people over the last week!

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A few weeks ago, I allow you guys to ask me any question you want by submitting your question / topic to blog about on the right sidebar. The next entry says:

how there was one american boy who you wanted to meet when you came here but couldnt. And then you claim you want to talk to him again but your never online.

Talk about him. He seems like a really cool guy :p

which is exactly what I am going to blog about although I have to beg to differ to what was written. :P

I know instantly who this person is. I actually have a lot of respect and admiration for this American boy for many reasons.

I almost met this American Boy during my trip to the USA because I had a few days to kill before I head to Chicago from Atlanta. However, this boy decided that I wasn't cool enough thus, didn't want to meet. :P OK, that wasn't the truth. He had exams or assignments due, and I didn't think flying to the city we were going to meet for only 2-3 days was worth the travel, thus the plan was cancelled.

On the claim that I want to talk to him again, this happened back in February. However, this American Boy never called nor show up on Skype, and then made the above claim. :P I was on Skype almost the entire time between February and May except when I was travelling. I think Village Boy can attest to that - unless he's gang-ing against me. :P

Having said that, this American Boy is probably one of the most courageous and compassionate guys I've know. The adversities that he had to go through, including circumstances he cannot avoid really made him the person that he is today. His courage, determination and perseverance in turning things around makes him a very well-respected person.

Sure, he has moments when he doubts himself, but hey, who doesn't. It's part and parcel of being a typical imperfect human.


His compassion for humans blows me away. He is a guy whom I would describe as an activist. If things aren't OK, he's not one to close one eye, put on an ignorant mask and walk away. He will get his hands down and dirty to do the job and fix it. If he can't fix the situation, he will do what he can to make the situation better.

I have to say there are things that he do that annoys the hell out of me. Like arranging to Skype but then he'd bail on me! I did wrote about how much that annoys me. Also, he can hide his emotions pretty well.

But having said that, his intentions are clear. He's one of the very few bloggers that I have high admiration for. :)

He's none other than Drew from A Murder Of One. Go harrass him.

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Next blog post or, if I can't be arsed to write, audio blog, is ... about my cute face.. ?!! What?!! I think I know who this came from.

Then the post after that is about my ideal guy - even if just a shag. Hahaha! Whoever wrote this, you are fucking classic, mate.

Monday, June 7, 2010

That Boy Nathan

Thanks for all the encouraging comments on my last post. I replied to some of you via email but I am not sure if you guys get it or not. :/ I could be sending those emails into an empty space somewhere on the interweb.

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So, next blog post in the series of "Telling Aaron What to Blog About" is "Nathan Nathan Nathan" which is kinda awkward because Nathan reads this blog and I don't know what I can say about Nathan.

If you've been following this blog, you would have read the beginning of the story.

Nathan came into my life at the most random time and he turns my life upside down in the weirdest way. Under normal circumstances, he's not someone that I would invest much effort in nor would I even consider loving. He's way too far away and we don't even know when we'll see each other again, yet I still love him and invest in making contacts with him.


Apart from his good looks, his beautiful eyes and perfect smile, what I find attractive about him is actually his attitude. He can be a bit of a bitch, but deep down, he's a really caring and compassionate guy. He treats me like gold (sometimes) and there was once, we actually got into a pretty serious argument and he was really angry at me. However, that did not last him a day. That was cute, although the situation wasn't.

On many levels, he's someone that just aligns with a lot of my personal values. He listens and he carries conversations well. With me, he's always genuine and he would admit mistakes and weaknesses - which I really respect. He does the most random things to make me smile. Waking up reading his emails is always a good laugh and a great start to the day. He always has something to make fun of and turn into a joke. And coming home to an email and some times a postcard in the mail just... yeah, there's always laughter when he's around.

We have an honesty policy, i.e. we promised to be honest to each other even if the truth will hurt the other person. Honesty is a value I hold on to very dearly (call me lame) and it is something that he's managed to keep. He tells me everything and anything, even if it might be things that I disagree with. He even tell me the girls he screwed. Mofo!

And nothing pisses me off more than people not being able to keep their words. Well, Nathan definitely has something I don't have. Being organised. :P If he tells me that he'll Skype with me between 11.00-11.30am, he'll be there. If he promise a long email over the weekend, there will be a long email over the weekend. And everything is recorded in his Calender! Bloody organised freak.

He brings a lot of laughter, a lot of love and warmth into my life. In many ways, although he's far, he makes up for it with all his thoughtfulness and love.

Having said that, he is a bit of a pooface sometimes. His sarcasm is so vain it makes me want to give him a good punch in the face. :P

So yeah, I think that's it. Haha. It's funny that in the beginning, I had an intense feeling for Nathan. It subsided slightly, a few weeks after I met him but over the last few weeks, its just come back again. I'll think about him at really random times. Having said that, he's thousands and thousands of miles away, so all I could do is dream dream dream... until he comes to Australia.

I hope everyone is well. Lots of love to you all.

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